Recently, we decided that we want to plan a move to a different state (we visited and fell in love and it’s where we want to raise our family) so we made a 2 year plan. My husband is so unhappy here and is really looking forward to reaching our goals. We want to be debt free by the time we move. We are also expecting our first baby very soon! So right now, hubby is paying all the bills, and we both want our daughter to have a SAHM so he’ll be supporting us over the next year or so.

Since I won’t be working, our goals will be reached a little slower. And it just kills me knowing that my past student loans are a huge part of what’s preventing us from moving forward. He didn’t ask for this... we weren’t together when I was in college, this shouldn’t be his burden...I just feel like I’m holding us back from being debt free sooner and preventing him from being happy. Anyone else been in this situation?? How to I let go of the heaviness that now we’re a “family”, it’s he’s debt too...😢