My partner and I never wanted a big fancy ceremony, but we've just never got round to getting married (various stories, some of which are quite long, not the point). Yesterday he turned round to me and said "I'm fed up of not being married to you yet, by this time next year I want to be able to call you my wife" (we've been engaged for 4 years). After speaking about it a little bit, we decided we'd like an April or May wedding. But that means I have 9-10 months to plan our wedding 😂 It's lucky we only want a small event and he earns a good wage!