Ok so I have been divorced for about a year and a half now and I was talking to my mom about getting remarried and needing her help to find some one (religious reasons) and she asked me what kind of man am I looking for. So I said Hispanic and she looked at me funny when I said I didn’t want to marry an African American. I don’t think I’m racist but my sister jokes around and says it sometimes, I mean I do find African American men attractive but when I think of a spouse I have a certain preference.