Sleeping.. help

Hey ladies. Second time mom here but I feel like I'm totally failing when it comes to nighttime with new baby. I'm doing everything routine like j did with my son and new baby just wont sleep. I extra burp him to get rid of any gases, but he is constantly wiggling in bed. He wont take the pacifier and wants breast (to comfort). If he eat a little more than he should he throws up etc. I dont know what to do to get him to sleep at night. I've tried laying him down and waiting it out, rock and cuddling. As soon as I put him down he starts screaming. It's been this battle for past hour and a half. If I let him cry it out, he goes purple faced holding his breath. He is so strong willied its frustrating. What are you doing or any advice?