I love my little sister (2 yrs younger) but she just got engaged and she wants to have her wedding in Aruba, my husband and I have been discussing this at length, he doesn’t want to go, it’s on 2021 and we do have time to save but it will cost us around 3,000 for the both of us, and we are trying to have a baby so you don’t know how long that will take. My sister had the nerve to tell me along with her fiancé this weekend when it was me her, her fiancé and my husband that we shouldn’t have a baby then and wait til after because we will want to drink and such most likely and it’s no fun to be pregnant at a wedding or have a little one and traveling abroad so we should wait til after we wedding to try. In my opinion I don’t want to wait that long, we have been married for a year and together for almost 6. I don’t think it’s fair of my sister to tell me when I can and can’t have a baby because of her wedding, you can’t always control when God wants you to have or not have a child. Idk if I am overreacting but I don’t think that is fair of her to ask. Maybe it’s just me. Is it?