Boyfriends and sex drives

Okay so I know I have a high sex drive I have ever since I lost my virginity. My boyfriend on the other hand doesn’t. It seems as if almost every time we have sex I have to “convince” him or it just feels forced. The sex is passionate I guess but leading up to it it seems like I’m just forcing or persuading him into doing something he doesn’t wanna do. It kinda hurts my feelings and makes me overthink a lot. What if it’s because he’s not as attracted to me as he used to be or i don’t know but what do you guys think do you think maybe I’m just trying a lot and should fall back or what? Also what are some things that can spice up the sex or our apart and make me feel more confident (ps. Posting anonymously Bc yikes)