Hating myself right now.

So I hate that I never worked off my mum tum after our first because it’s making me feel so much worse with our second. I’m 8 weeks pregnant. Is there anyway I can at least tonne up the extra flap that hangs over to give a more round belly. I’m bigger then I was full term with my first so I’m so worried I’ll never look “pregnant” just fat because of this extra flap.