Have you stayed with SO who got someone pregnant ?

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Ladies has anyone stayed with their SO who got someone pregnant while together or even separated and how did you go about fixing things while they are still involved for the baby ? How did he prove himself to be faithful again and how long did it take you to come around ?

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Nope. I told him to get out. Best choice I made. He got with the baby momma, cheated on her just like he did me. Now has somewhere between 3 and 4 kids from different moms.

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Deff leave.  Cheating in itself is one thing but he got someone pregnant too.  That's not something I could personally look past.

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It’s not worth it.

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I was in this situation when I was 19. I was so naive and totally in love that I made the WRONG decision and stayed. I tried to make it work. I never got to experience “fixing things” while baby was involved because once the baby was born he left me for her — and years later I found out he was sleeping with her throughout the whole pregnancy.
I’m married now so he is just a distant memory, but it sure did hurt like hell when it happened. 
If I could turn back time I would have walked away the second I found out she was pregnant. I could forgive the cheating, but a baby hurts so much more — esp because I wanted to have a baby with him. Thank goodness I didn’t though! I dodged a bullet there. He is still cheating on her to this date. He has even hit me up a few times — but HELL NO I’m not putting someone through the same pain he put me through! He can kiss my ass.

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I was 20 when my new boyfriend at the time found out he had gotten a girl pregnant a month prior to meeting me. So he didn’t cheat. But it wasn’t for me. He actually ended up dating the girl and they are now married with a few more kids. Point being, let him go, he has a lot to figure out. Add in the him cheating on you part, you deserve so much better.

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Never been in this situation but I would couples counseling is a must

Have you stayed with SO who got someone pregnant ?

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