SO and I have decided to be TTC for #2. #1 was not planned and is now 2yo. We are at a decent place financially and are working on getting better and will be just fine when baby #2 comes along. We aren't married yet and dont plan to be for another 4 years. Our issue is although we are happy with this decision, we know due to us being unmarried, some of our family(parents included) will not share in our joy at first. Any tips on how to handle this? Any tips on how to make the announcement to those family members?