I’m not the jealous type and never really have been. I suspected my boyfriend had slept with many more women than he actual did and that never bothered me. I live next to one of his ex’s and it doesn’t bother me. We live in a small town and now I know two of the girls he’s slept with. I never was bothered until I found out who they were. Also, it will just be random things he says. One time there was a black cat walking past my car and he said “my ex had a black cat.” No idea why he would say that or even be thinking of that. My ex had a mustang and pit bull but when I see those things, it doesn’t remind me of my ex and I don’t just tell him that because what’s the point? Well, the other day we are laying down and he tells me “my ex is pregnant and just got married.” And again, no idea why he felt I needed to know that or why he even paid attention to it (they are friends on Facebook). Also, the fact that he brought it up out of nowhere, which makes me feel he just thinks of her. This is the girl who took his virginity which bothers me even more because he brings her up. He doesn’t see that it was a problem that he was still her friend on Facebook or that he told me something I didn’t need or want to know but told me he wouldn’t feel comfortable if I did the same. I look at him sometimes and I just think about the things he’s said and then I think about how he was with her and if he tells me the same things he tells her or touches me the same way. I mean, this girl was his first and the fact that he brings her up out of the blue makes me overthink so much to the point I just want to leave him but I haven’t because we have a son on the way. I don’t know why this bothers me so much but I want to know how to get over it?