Can you stop squirting during sex?

Ok ladies, I am a squirter. Always have been

So lately my bf has said he doesn’t like it when I squirt. Early in our relationship it was a turn in and he loved it.

Now he says I need to fix it or he’ll go find sex else where and he won’t feel bad about fucking other people.

I’m so confused here. Why the change? And is it something you can stop?