I’m not very happy

Ok. So I’m having my baby shower on August 24 and I’m having 30 guests. But my husband did a sneak thing and invite his aunt which she got too much drama. Her 3 children and grand children are out of control. One is lock up for murder his ex( long story) but it on the tv show called fatal attraction. Her daughter is on drugs, and her son is in army jail for sexual assault and having affair with his wife and kids.and her granddaughter is cursing the grandmother and the story goes on and on. I’m am very pissed because he told me to take her off the list and I already gave the lady who is doing my baby shower my guest lists like weeks ago. And I don’t want no stress in my big day. We are having a second baby shower but that not until September 21. And his aunt is not Christian type person. My husband family is from Trindad and Tobago but some lived in the United States. I was born and raised in the USA.

Some are Christian and some are not. And I don’t want no one to embarrass me in front of my church members included the pastor wife.

I need help😰😰

What should is do? I don’t want to bring in extra person at the baby shower at someone house who is offer to do at her place. It feel like a sneak thing or go with the flow like my husband say