Should I be feeling guilty for asking my s/o for more emotional support and understanding?

When I met him 4 years ago, I knew he wasn’t in touch with his emotions but 4 years on and I’ve matured, I want to be treated like a lady, I want to feel valued, loved and respected.

In four years We have never kissed each other on the lips, he doesn’t want to get married, he doesn’t pay me any compliments even when I asked “do I look good”.

Am I wrong in wanting more support or expecting him to understand and change to my emotional needs?