Okay... tips on being vocal.

I moan quite loud. But as for me being vocal I quite quiet. I had my husband send me his favorite porn to learn from. And all I hear is “oh my god, fuck, you feel so good, please don’t stop....etc” I say those things but very quiet. I’m so shy.... I don’t want to be. I want to be a complete slut for my husband. Should I just go for it one day? But at the same time I don’t want it to sound forced. We have really good sex according to him. But he asked if I’d try this to make it better. I really want too but I’m so fucking embarrassed and shy. Like I let you eat and stick your dick in my ass WHY IS THIS SO DIFFICULT TO DO. Ugh. Tips on how to get more “relaxed and loose” would be greatly appreciated. TIA!!

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K

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You both need to understand those porn actors are just...acting. It doesn't need to be exaggerated in order for it to be good

Ly

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I think copying porn to make yourself more attractive to him isn’t something you should have to do!! but if you do want to get more loose and say things along those lines just breathe, enjoy, close your eyes and remember that he is your partner and doesn’t judge you!! From experience, the more I am into it and feeling good, the more likely I am to say things and not feel embarrassed.

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If your husband is sending you study material... run lol

B

B • Jul 26, 2019
Well I mean we both send each other shit to learn from. I’m very bad at explaining what I want. So I send him things to teach and for him to learn from! I don’t find anything wrong with it

am

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If you really want to feel more comfortable talking dirty during sex, then practice when you masturbate. Do it until you feel comfortable. If you try it out and dont ever feel comfortable openly explain that to him.

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B • Jul 26, 2019
I do talk occasionally during sex. Just not loud enough for him to hear. I know he likes it a lot. And I don’t mind it. I’m just nervous because I don’t think my voice is sexy 😂