I’m 21, married, have 2 kids and one on the way.

I have tried my hardest to stay away from my mother-in-law but she keeps pushing and pushing and being pregnant I just want to slap her 🤷‍♀️ anyways besides that point over the past four years she’s talked shit on me while I was pregnant, showed up at my house when I threatened a restraining order, stalked me around town. so I keep myself and my kids away(also she’s a past criminal pretty sure cartail affiliation, and tried to smuggle drugs into the US) I don’t trust her and I don’t believe she should have access to my kids due to her crime and the way she behaves at 50. I have taken enough mental abuse from this woman, and it doesn’t stop but I try my best to ignore it. Just a few days ago they have started talking shit to my husband saying I have his nuts/or that he’s pretty much controlled by me. This really upset him and I asked him if he thought it was true, and he said no. To add he normally goes over there and hangouts with his brother for a bit, and his mom is in town sometimes. When they are, they like to ask where me and my kids are knowing very well We don’t visit. yet, this all started because he tells them no when they ask for things like last week they asked him to haul stuff to the dump because our new truck is the only vehicle insured and they don’t want to get a ticket when none of his 3 brothers families have insured vehicles(that’s not my problem I’m not open to doing favors for a two faced B****) I’ve been looking into a restraining order, or stalking order because I’ve had it. I can’t take anymore of this woman and her shenanigans. I’ve debated about calling the cops but she’ll be deported

**** let me also add if we’ve ever needed financial support or someone to lean on it’s been solely my family. I have never let her babysit, let alone be with my kids alone(she’s only met my oldest)***** she also didn’t raise my husband she tossed over custody and likes to act like she has business playing “mom or grandma”