Help - Falling out of love?

Karen

Hey ladies!

I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 6 months now, and he absolutely loves and adores me but I’m beginning to feel like I am falling out of love.

He isn’t very romantic, never really thinks of doing anything romantic for me or us. It’s always me who suggests doing something fun/new/exciting together. He also never does any small surprises for me whereas I feel like I always do this for him, because I love seeing his smile and response when he sees a little surprise I’ve prepared for him.

He isn’t very willing to spend money in the relationship (on me or on us) because he wants to “save money,” but he also just readily blows money on drinks and going out with his friends?

I just don’t feel very sexually attracted to him anymore either because of this lack of spark/romance in general.

I feel a bit bored and stagnant and just in love anymore. Like we’re not going anywhere, and in a relationship I want to feel excited for what’s ahead :(

Have any of you ever felt this way before too? How did you respond? Did you keep trying or end the relationship?

What are some little or big things you recommend doing to help “fall back in love”/spark up love again in the relationship?