What is cheating to you ? ⚠️

If you’re in a relationship which of the following is considered cheating to you ??🤔

1- you SO engaging in sexual conversation with another woman, pillow talking on the phone to another woman , saying he wants to have sex with that person but never acts on it .

OR

2- strictly engaging in sexual interactions with another woman. In person .

*sn ...my EX when we were still together thought talking to his ex’s and liking their pics were ok, talking bad about me and telling other girls that like him or his ex’s our problems was ok, and planning to link up with other women and have sex with them was ok . And didn’t consider it cheating because he didn’t PHYSICALLY cheat.

Maybe it’s just me idk .