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Didn’t feel like typing again

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I’m sorry but I’d be annoyed too. I currently can’t have babies and maybe someday god will give me one more, it is heartbreaking disappointment. But I don’t think it can compare to losing a baby. That’s heartbreaking loss, thats grief. She should know Everyone has different struggles, but her struggles don’t make yours any less.

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Oh man. Okay so my mom and I have a bad relationship. There's a girl a little younger than me who is married to the son of one of my moms friends from high school. She added her on social media,  never met in real life. They have been doing IVF for a couple years trying to have baby #2. This girl posts ALL her drama on FB about IVF treatment like how many eggs they pulled from her,  how many they are going to implant,  etc.  Not for me,  but whatever to each his own. 
The embryo failed to implant at one of the tries. She of course puts it on FB. My own freaking mother said that what she is going through is way worse then when I lost my baby because she can't even get pregnant. Never mind that my baby,  her own grandchild, had a heartbeat and was a living human being for a short time. 
I didn't speak to her for months. She never apologized or saw anything wrong with it.

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I am sorry for you previous losses. Congratulations, I wish you a happy, healthy pregnancy!!!

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Wooow, talking about disrespecting someone in their own home. I would've let her have it! That's such a disgusting this to say! She should be ashamed of herself.

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She's an insensitive B****.
She's obviously envious and brought up the miscarriages to hurt you and bring you down.

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Ummm no, fuck her. It doesn’t matter if it takes you a year or 10 years to conceive, if you’ve never conceived and never experienced a loss YOUR PAIN IS NOT WORSE THAN THE PAIN OF A WOMAN WHO HAS EXPERIENCED LOSS. This is coming from someone who has been ttc for a year now and never once got pregnant.
Stories like this make me wish I was there so I could tell these people off for you.

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Your better than me. I would have just told her to go fuck herself. That’s a wildly inappropriate and inconsiderate thing to say.

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