I’m confused

So I really like a lot of male clothing like button down collard shirts for example. While I know as a female I can wear these, it just doesn’t look right. Sometimes I’m self conscious of my chest when wearing these clothing items. But I like being a girl and I like my ladybits. At the same time, I don’t feel comfortable in the clothes that I like. I told my mother about that and she said that I just like those clothes for other people or I like how it looks on others, but I want to like how it looks on me. Problem is some of my bits don’t match up with the clothing the way I would want it to. So can someone feel like they want to be a boy and a girl?