SAHM’s..

Ally • • Wren & Aveda 🖤 26 • Single mom • Oregon coast •

This is for all my my stay at home moms out there. If your boyfriend/husband works and you stay home, do you expect him to clean up after himself? Does he have any “chores” or things he normally does to help out around the house? Or does he literally just come home from work and chill?

Reason I ask is because my boyfriend doesn’t help out around the house, he doesn’t clean up after himself and he leaves messes for me to clean up. Before getting upset about it, I would like others’ opinions. It doesn’t upset me but sometimes the messes he makes stress me out. He leaves trash, dirty diapers, dirty dishes, clothes, and other messes all over the house for me. I do our laundry, cook, grocery shop, pay bills, take care of baby, take care of our 2 puppies as well, and some other little things like sweep, mop, organize, clean the kitchen, and tidy up the house. Is it normal for him to literally not do anything to help out around the house? Or do you believe that should strictly be my job?

Thanks for reading, I’d love to hear your input.

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