My boyfriend kinda makes me feel fat😔

My boyfriend is amazing... he's seriously the best thing that's ever happened to me and I dont want people to trash him for this, but maybe help me see it from his side or help me w a way to explain to him it bothers me...

I'm 5'5 and I played sports year around so I have an athletic build... I've never been a small girl. After I stopped playing sports I got up to 190, he didnt know me then... I'm now down to 160 and im honestly pretty proud of myself for it. At the beginning of the year I cut out all desserts bc I ate so many desserts every day, it was terrible.

Now that I've lost 30 pounds, I feel like I can start having a bite of something sweet every so often... my boyfriend refuses to let me have it if it's his and it makes me feel bad bc why cant he accept my weight and just say, you dont need to cut out sweets, you're perfect how you are😔

Tonight we went and got ice cream and I got frozen yogurt so it's somewhat healthier... I got a bite of his and I was like babe I think I'm gonna start allowing myself to have something small maybe every 2 months or every month so I asked for another bite of his ice cream and he said no that first bite was your sweets for the month😔😔😔