Diaper bag recommendations?

What is the best style(backpack/crossbody/tote/etc) and the best brand diaper bag for all of the essentials you need with 2 under 2.

I can’t seem to find one big enough for our son let alone enough for the stuff we will need for our daughter on the way.

I know I’ll need an outfit change for both

Diapers for both

Wipes

Formula for her

His sippy cups

Food for him

Pacifiers

I can barely remember what essentials we’ll need other than changing pad and diaper cream