I absolutely hate my MIL. At first I just tolerated her, I didn't hate her but I wasn't trying to be a kiss ass to her either ya know? Well after denying to come to our 2nd child's gender reveal, not caring to see our son before they moved to a different state, or even telling us when they actually were moving and having to find out through facebook that they were already on the road, I've lost all respect for her. Then to top it all off she recently flew her daughter and granddaughter out to their new house for vacation (yes she only cares about her granddaughter), the daughter (sister in law) came back early, so my mil ended up flying back with the granddaughter and staying for 4 FULL days and not even tell us or even bother to see her grandson. The worse part is she messaged me on facebook literally a couple days before hand and didn't even mention it. My husband did say something to her about it and all she told me was how she wasnt going to argue with him 🙄.

Well now she's been sharing quotes on Facebook that are clearly directed towards him/us. I've been quite about it since it's not my place to say anything to her. But I'm about to lose my shit at this point. It breaks my heart to see my husband stay strong about it, but I know deep down it hurts him too. My husband says he's use to it, use to her treating him like shit and that he's ok with it because people always walk out on him which just kills me. And I literally don't get it. Out of my mils 3 kids my husband is the only one who has anything going for him. He's the only one who doesn't need mommy 24/7 and it's like because of that she punishes him?! I dont get how you can not care about one child or a grandkid you flaunt around that you love so much all over facebook 🙄. Makes me sick.