Leaving a marriage?

Hi ladies- I’m looking for some advice. I’ve been married 8 years now, with my husband for 10. We have kids together and currently rent a home. I work part time to be available for pick up/ drop offs to school & cook/clean. My husband is the main source of income.

I have been contemplating divorce for some time now. I have not been happy for awhile due to emotional abuse, anger problems he suffers with, lack of intimacy, not wanting to be a family man, etc.

I know I cannot afford a place without him and after daycare cost & my car loan, I am left with $100 a week.

My parents have a full house right now so staying with them and all of my children are not an option. I don’t even know where to start or how to get out of this. Does anyone have any advice? :(