Need rainbow baby advice !

I'm so sorry for your losses and congratulations on your rainbow. I lost triplets in 2016. I should have been 11 week but sadly they had stop growing at 9.5 weeks. I had rainbow twins in 2017. They are the sweetest things and I love then more than anything in this life.Getting from the positive on a little test to babies snuggled in my arms was the most terrifying time. I decided to make little goals. Goal #1 make it past 9.5 weeks #2 past 11 weeks #3 past 12 weeks #4 past 24 weeks. These little miles stones helped me feel better. I know some may not see it that way but for me it helped. The biggest thing that helped was GOD. I'm not going to preach to you but I tried to lay it in God's hands. I would say "God's got this. Faith over fear. It's going to be great." Any time I felt nervous or scared for my babies I would just say it to myself. This was the first time I really put my faith in him.You got this mama. I know it's hard but just relax. It's going to be great. 😁

Congratulations!!! I took my rainbow 🌈 baby’s pregnancy one day at a time. My nerves and anxiety were intense the entire pregnancy and honestly the first year of his life. I looked for as much support as possible from my husband, family, friends, and medical providers. I was open and honest about my struggle.

I was extremely nervous after finding out I was pregnant with our rainbow baby, it wasn’t until after 12weeks that I started to calm down a bit, I was still torn between being excited and being nervous right up until bubs was in my arms. I’m not gonna lie It was a constant battle but I tried to stay positive and brought a fetal Doppler to check baby’s heart rate whenever I felt nervous I’d check his heart beat and that gave me reassurance. I now have a beautiful (nearly 8mth old) baby boy!