Is it bad I wanna be pampered or spoiled or just even appreciated

So my boyfriend he like never does anything thoughtful I used to feel so loved by him and now I feel like he doesn’t make the effort. I would never ask for anything I don’t expect to be pampered but it would be nice to feel appreciated every now and then. All he ever does is buy me cards like thank u cards and I love you cards and scribble loads of meaningless words on them and I’m just so tired of getting them cuz they mean nun the very next day he’d go off and do the complete opposite to what he says he feels on the card ? I just hes a carpenter and making our baby that’s due in a few days a big fancy toy box he told me before he was gonna make me a jewelry box but never did ? And he told me he’d get me a maternity massage multiple times and never did I remember once I acc asked for flowers of him 🤦‍♀️ I know I sound like a rude bitch but I just have been through a lot and it would be nice to see he appreciates me. Cuz he can go buy himself a jacket with no sleeves even that costs 500 € but can’t ever even get me a 5€ bunch of flowers or a 1.50€ box of chocolates I just feel like where has the romance gone 😐