When is it a good time to divorce your spouse... I feel so alone most of my nights when he gets home . He always is drinking 24/7 an the pushes me away because i think it's not attractive . He always saids you know what you married.. well i thought it would change after 5 years in was in the wrong . He is an awesome father to our kids . Just a lousy husband , i hardly can keep a conversation going it's like I'm forcing my self to spend time with him . I cant feeling alone 24/7 it literally isnt fair to me I'm 8 wks an I feel when this baby comes I wont have any help .. like I do with our 3 year old. I need advice???