So my boyfriend wants to be with me eventually, he wants us to end up together and marry me and have kids and stuff, but right now it seems like he doesn’t wanna be in a relationship 🤔

It confuses me because up until recently we’ve been a stable couple. We both loved eachother unconditionally, but now it just seems like he’s changed, he’s not the person I started dating a year ago. He’s been acting really single I.e declining opportunities to go out with me but constantly going out with his friends, doing drugs (his friends are all party boys), and when he is with me he seems kinda distant. He maintains that he loves me and that he wants to end up with me (he even cried telling me that when I bought it up) but it just seems like atm he doesn’t wanna be in a relationship and I don’t know how to feel about that?

Opinions ladies???