Sex toy advice 🤷🏻‍♀️

I hope this isn’t too personal or inappropriate but I a have a question for the experienced women on here.

My and my wife are trying to spice things up and we’ve been on the hunt for a new strap or strapless toy that’s small enough for a petite women but still equipped (I guess that what you could say) enough to give satisfaction to the both of us.

We’ve found a few nice ones but sadly they’ve all been a little too big 🙄

ANYWAY... I was hoping if anybody had any suggestions or preferences from experience they would be willing to share with me.

Again, I hope this wasn’t too inappropriate 😊

Thanks in advance!!!