Embarrassed by hair..

So, I’m 18 and I’m still a virgin. I want to lose my virginity, but my problem is.. I’m a very hair girl in my below areas. Im talking A LOT and it trails all the way into my butt..? I’m not a fan of shaving because the hair itches a ton when it grows back and I’ve tried trimming and although I like it more, it doesn’t help with the butt situation.. I want to try waxing but I’m super afraid to and I just wanted to know if a lot of guys really care and examine things like this??