My husband got laid off last week. Thankfully he has secured another job but he’s going to be taking a 5K a year pay cut, have to come 3 hours and work every weekend. I have been venting to my mom and some other friends because I’m not happy that now we’ll be struggling financially and my husband won’t be home as much. My mom is yelling at me and calling me ungrateful, mocking me for being upset and just generally making me feel like my feelings aren’t valid. She has always helped me with things in the past (watching my daughter while I worked, helping us financially when I got unexpectedly laid off) but she throws it in my face later how much she helps me and I hate it. I already struggle with depression and anxiety her behavior isn’t helping me. She’s mad because I told her I’ll be drowning at home by myself and she said screw me because I should know she’ll help me. I told her I appreciate her help but I don’t appreciate how it comes with strings attached. I don’t know what to do. If you’ve it this far thanks for reading.