Fix for frizzy top layer of hair?

Okay. This has been a constant issue since I can remember, no matter the circumstances. I’m only just now getting tired of it. My hair is naturally thick and curly, but the top layer is just a wavy layer of frizz.

frizz held up:

frizz released:

When I get out of the shower, I don’t comb or mess with it (minus the dabs with a towel to get excess water out). Even the majority of times I use product, it flops. I don’t wash it everyday, either. I use hydrating conditioners and let it sit for about three minutes every time.