Losing my shit with people who won’t help themselves

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Finally at breaking point with hearing people constantly whinge and moan that they’ve got no money, can’t eat and everything else under the sun when I’ve fully tried to help, offered my own money, food bank services and many other solutions but just won’t use the resources for which ever reasons that might be.

I’m just over 22wks pregnant and can’t afford a great deal myself anymore, the struggle is on for sure. For all of us. But I’ve been offering so much and it just seems I’m currently everyone’s emotional punch bag when it comes to this stuff? Three days straight two friends have cried at my feet with how grumpy, hungry and broke they are and I’ve literally offered to take them out of bank money withdrawal so they can eat for a few days and just say no and carry on whinging at me? It’s so stressful watching people do this and be like this, it’s making me feel depressed and helpless along with them at this point. It doesn’t help that everyone knows I’ve got a huge soft spot and weakness for helping homeless/foodless people. What can I even do?