Am I being fair or ridiculous?
My husband likes to play video games. He likes to play multiple times a week and whenever he plays, it’s for 6+ hours at a time. I do not like this only because I would like to spend more quality time together. I have tried to compromise with saying I would be ok with the games if it didn’t have to be an all day/all night thing. He insists that playing for 2 hours isn’t possible/worth it. I also tried to compromise with one day a week for as long as he wanted, he still wasn’t happy with that. I am currently 13 weeks pregnant and I want to spend as much time with him as possible. He gets mad because he says I only want to snuggle in bed, not do anything else (I’m not feeling well today). We got into a fight about it and now he is downstairs playing video games.
Am I being unreasonable? I like that he has a hobby, and he likes to play with his friends online which is great. But is the quality time that I want unreasonable.
For reference, we both work full time, spend a lot of time with our families, and he also plays an all day game at one of his friends houses once a month.
Feel free to be honest with me.
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