No gender thoughts

Hey everyone! So I am 19 weeks 3 days and I have had no dreams or thoughts of gender! It’s driving me crazy!! I had a dream last night that we went to do our 20 week ultrasound (it’s this Thursday) and the doctor said based on heartbeat and one ultrasound picture we were having a girl and then a few moments later they said “well this picture looks like a boy. We can’t tell you for certain” I woke up and was so mad. Every time I have a dream about Baby, Baby is in all white with no name or any idea for gender. I don’t have any belief one way more then the other. My last 2 appointments have had a fetal heart rate around 160. My doctor said old wives tail says girl. My husband swears up and down we are having a girl. There are a TON of boys in our families so my mind is being logical and saying boy but my heart is hoping for a girl since there hasn’t been one for a while and my husband is so sure about it. Is anyone else having this struggle? I normally have dreams about friends or families babies and guessing the gender and being right 90% of the time. Please tell me I’m not the only one?! I feel like I’m missing a connection to my baby.