Am I a horrible person ?

Question

You guys...I feel like I am the worst person ever. I am 18 weeks into my first pregnancy and I honestly HATE IT!!! Everyone talks about how amazing pregnancy is and how lucky I am to be pregnant. It makes me feel like a horrible human being and a worse mother that I am counting down every day until it is over. I am still struggling with nausea and lack of appetite every single day. I am still taking my antidepressants, but I feel like they don’t even help anymore. My hubby is amazing and tries to understand, not he just keeps reminding me how lucky we are to be having this baby..... any helpful advice that helped y’all out? I am just feeling so out of it lately. TIA

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No. Being pregnant isn’t for everyone. It’s not all sunshine and rainbows.

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you can love your baby without loving being pregnant. i feel like nobody talks about how hard pregnancy is on a woman's body and how painful and exhausting it can be. pregnancy is different for everyone and if you hate being pregnant thats a valid response. i do not think this makes you a bad person and it doesnt mean motherhood isnt for you, it just means youre having a difficult pregnancy. i feel like even people who enjoyed their pregnancy have probably hated being pregnant at least a few times when theyve felt really awful its just not talked about a lot.

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I know a lot of people who hate being pregnant, it’s uncomfortable, you feel nauseous all the time, you can’t sleep. To be honest i. Surprised some women even like it.

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I’m really sorry that it’s so hard for you. I heard that lots of women have a tough time going through pregnancy. Don’t worry, it does NOT make you a bad person, it’s totally normal. Not everyone likes getting kicked in the innards for nine months. 😂 I wish you the best of luck, I hope you get better!

Am I a horrible person ?

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