Pregnancy, sex and BC

Hi ladies !!

So i need your help with somethin i’ve just experiences in the last 24 hours. hopefully you choose not to say rude things, as i am very new to the whole birth control thing and not entirely sure the side effects or the possibilities.

So i started taking birth control about a week-two weeks ago, my boyfriend and i have not had sex since i started the BC. however, we have tried to have sex prior to me starting BC but he couldn’t get his penis in me, so nothing came from that and there was not ejaculation at all. We also had him wear a condom each time that we did that.

Now, I was supposed to get my period, and although i’m not very worried about t being a day late because as my calendar on here shows my period comes anywhere between the 13th and 23/26 of the month.. i was spotting yesterday a little bit but it has kind of stopped this morning. Now i’m concerned when i was looking it up (stupid decision) all of the results said i was probably pregnant.. which is why i’m asking here because even when i googled our sexual experience we’ve had it said that it is still possible to get pregnant due to a bunch of other ways that sperm can leave other than ejaculation.

I also read that it is possible for you to completely miss your period when on the pill.. but only when you haven’t missed a few days. and there was a two day period where i didn’t take them because i lost the package.

I have also gotten a few of the normal symptoms i get when on my period, things like lower abdominal cramps, headaches, bloating and the shits.

So if anyone has any idea what’s goin on, i’d be more than happy to listen to what’s happening.

The only reason I’m even asking this is because I am a super anxious person when it comes to anything to do with health, or my body. I am a little worried about getting pregnant but both my boyfriend and i talked about what would happen if that were to occur, and i am 100% okay with pregnancy being an accidental occurrence.. even though i am way too young for that currently. So because i am now on the pill, and just starting to have sex i’m very new to the changes it can make to your body and just need some guidance.

:)