😒 Already sick of people analysing what pronoun I use to talk about the baby

We don't know what is the sex of the baby and I don't want to know because I feel like it really doesn't matter and I want more gender neutral stuff for the baby (want to avoid having everything pink or blue at the shower).

Everytime I use a pronoun people over analyse and assume 'my intuition' is telling me what I'm gonna be having - like no I just have to use something because I don't want to call it 'it' the entire pregnancy! 😒😑 (I frankly don't get why people obsess with gender!)

I need a nickname ASAP, one that would translate easily in French and English without having to use gender. Any suggestions?

Rant over- thanks for listening 😅😂