Swaddle or not?


My son will be 2 month next week..after the first week of him being home I noticed he hates being swaddled, like he struggles so hard to get out that he starts crying and gets really upset. His face even turns bright red and his little vein pops out on his head!! So I figured maybe he just doesn’t like it. Well as you know newborns had that startle reflex so now most of the time his naps are very short. What do you think? Swaddle him even though he hates it?