Does my husband have a right to be mad?

I have a daughter from a previous marriage. She is almost 9 years old and I left her father when she was 7 months old. We have a son who is 3 and expecting a little girl. We put together the crib and I was goingbto use the bedding from my daughter. It is beautiful and I have saved it because I always wanted to use it again. My husband freaked out about it because I used it with my ex husbands baby. He also freaks out anytime someone says my son and daughter look alike. Does he have a valid point or do you all find it ridiculous as well?