my ex was a materialistic but also nice guy. we had dated for 2 months and i realized that he did not want to spend more time for me than a few hours a week. he works hard (2 jobs and study at the same time). whenever he had free time he would play games, go out for a walk, to a gym... he only spared 2-3 hours a week to go out with me for dinner or a movie. i got upset and broke up with him around 3 months ago. i have never been needy and clingy in my life and never want to be.

another thing about him is that he always emphasizes how he wants everything to be equal between us, especially in finance issue. i myself am very sensitive regarding matters of money, so i always split up our pay strictly. its alright but i feel uncomfortable that we pay too much attention on money matters.

hes a very ambitious guy and he wants good things for me too. always encourages me to move up in my career and earn more. even though i know hes not trying to, i feel very unsecure and belittled (he earns around 2.5-3 times more than me). im not confident being around him. he has many plans for us like moving in together after he graduates, we even discuss marriage and children. i believe that he wants a serious relationship with me and plan for the future.

when i broke up with him, i simply thought its better to call it off and look for someone who actually wants to be with me and doesnt care too much about my "potentiality". but after 3 months i still couldnt lift myself up and look for someone. i think of us all the times.

after we broke up he texted me a few times asked me out. i really want to clear my head and work out a solution. should i move on or should i give this another try?

thank you for reading :*