My mom makes me feel so bad

Every time we get into any argument, even if it’s small she brings up my dad and stepmom

She always says stuff like “your dad doesn’t even care about you since he got married and you dont get mad at him”

“You haven’t seen your dad in 3 weeks, he doesn’t mind and you don’t get upset”

“All your dad does is give you money”

“Ugh you act just like your dad”

“Fine just move in with your mommy(stepmom)”

“I bet you tell your mommy you love her every time you see her”

“I bet you and your new family talk about me all the time” they have never talked bad about her

“Your dad is an idiot and you love him more than me”

“I’m sure your mommy talks bad about you when your gone”

I know my dad doesn’t see me a lot. She doesn’t have to bring it up all the time and make me feel worse than I already do about it. I never say anything like that to her.