I just had my baby 3 weeks ago. She was really small (less than 5lbs). I didn't tear, haven't had painful cramps at all, and my bleeding has been nowhere near as heavy as my periods usually are and has almost stopped. My sex drive came back instantly and I. Am. Dying.

I want sex so badly. Whenever my baby is asleep all I can think about is how it's the perfect time for him and I to get under the sheets.

He's been great and hasn't pushed or complained once that we can't have sex, although he has expressed that he misses it. He let's me play with him pretty often and I love it, but the intimacy just isn't the same.

He and I in a D/s dynamic with myself as the s-type, and even though our dynamic extends beyond the bedroom it still feels stifled to me from the lack of physical intimacy.

He's doing everything he can to make me happy and keep our dynamic strong. We've done some breath play and a bit of impact play, but we can't do the latter much due to the noise.

I hate this wait. How did y'all handle it? Did you wait the whole 6 weeks? If not, did you get an infection/pregnant? If so, how was the sex when you got back to it?

Any words of wisdom/encouragement to be patient is appreciated.