21weeks and Not Showing.

Is anyone else STILL not showing? This is my first and I feel so swollen EVERYWHERE but not getting any rounder. I’m also terrified of the weight gain not because I don’t want to be any heavier but because a nurse made me feel like gaining more than my recommended 11-20lbs would be so shameful and the worse thing I could do.

I don’t know what I thought pregnancy would be like but it takes such an emotional toll. Regardless, I love my little guy so much already and smile every time I feel him move.