Grrr men

My fiance thinks I'm rushing to him to married, just because I was looking at the venue and he also thinks I'm rushing because I picked the date he said it was good , and hes alao think that I'm rushing him into something hes barely afford, I told him I'll have my car paid off by dec and I'll be saving after I pay my car off I told him I could afford it and pay for our wedding and he went crazy about he said no that I'm risking him really I'm rushing you it's you're the one who asked me to marry him