I think I'm ready to give post baby sex a try at 12 weeks pp finally but had some scarring after a 2nd degree tear so things are a little tighter than they used to be at the opening and a little sore still. I have been massaging daily with vitamin e oil and the pain has significantly decreased since my 6 week appointment. At the appointment my Dr recommended the daily massages and lots of lube for sex and things will get back to normal eventually. Just curious if anyone has suggestions for a good lube after baby? I don't want anything that will increase burning, not sure if there is anything out there with a slight numbing effect?