My boyfriends lady friend keep harassing him about why the guys she’s dating doesn’t like her back. Is it wrong that she’s genuinely annoying me?

Question

Even my boyfriend is at the point where he can’t be bothered with her issues. He tried to do a nice thing and give her advice, but now she won’t shut up about it, and it’s start to annoy me. He keeps telling her to move on and she’ll fine someone else, and she’s all “BUt what did I do wrong?!? Blah blah blah” Like girl, figure out your own problems. Why are you demanding answers from my boyfriend when you don’t want to listen to his advice? Idk, it’s annoying

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I can understand how it can be annoying, but it shouldn’t annoy you, as it’s not coming to your phone and you aren’t the one talking to her. It is your boyfriend’s problem and if he doesn’t want to be bothered, then he needs to set a boundary himself with her. He has to be the one to tell her to stop. If she doesn’t want to listen, then that is her problem not his, not yours. But he has to be specific with her and he has to be the one to tell her to stop.

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I would have him tell her that to figure out what she did wrong, she needs to look within and start doing some self reflection. Looking outside of her self for the answers won’t give her the answers. She needs to be truly honest with herself about her behavioral flaws and change anything that might be toxic. Being too clingy or dependent will certainly push them away. Your boyfriend is very kind to be there for her as support, but he needs to be truly honest with her so that she can put on her big girl panties and handle it herself.

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Oh sorry I clicked yes instead of no, no it’s not wrong

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Tell her maybe its because she talks too much 😂 Lol I dont think I'd be annoyed persay, my husband is grown he can deal with his own friends without it being my business! Hes capable of ignoring! Lol

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He needs to stop replying. He has to tell her that he’s told her what he thinks of the situation and she needs to drop it with him and ask someone else for advice if his isn’t good enough. Then he needs to drop it too.

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That is annoying, I’m sorry y’all are dealing with that. Maybe he should just distance himself a little so she gets the point that he’s done giving her advice?

My boyfriends lady friend keep harassing him about why the guys she’s dating doesn’t like her back. Is it wrong that she’s genuinely annoying me?

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