I am 2 years younger than my sister and I am pregnant before her. Her and her husband have been trying for about a year now and haven’t had any luck. My husband and I have been trying on and off for 2 years. When we decided to give up, thinking it just wasn’t our time, we got pregnant.

I understand why she would be hurt because they have been trying. She isn’t happy for me at all. She said my marriage is shit, I shouldn’t bring a baby into the world with a shitty marriage, and I should really consider other options (implying an abortion)

She won’t speak to me anymore. Now she’s even limited talking to our mom. She shouldn’t avoid my mom just cause she’s pissed at me.

I feel like I can’t even show my excitement about my pregnancy to anyone. (Both sides of the family, my sister and my father in law, are pissed about the baby) A baby should be something to celebrate and my family is making me feel ashamed. I feel like I can only be excited when I’m alone. I want my sister to be happy to have a niece or a nephew; I don’t want her to hate my child just because she’s upset with me. Is there anything I can do?