soooo bothered

im 15 and my boyfriend (17) of almost 4 months now bought lube with his dad, told him it was for oral sex- something you don’t really NEED lube for (ik flavored lube exists, he did not buy flavored lube) He did not tell me he was going to buy lube, did not ask me if i was comfortable with his dad even knowing he was going to need lube for anything..

i haven’t decided if we’re gonna have sex just yet, he knows that, so what is he buying lube rn forrr

i want to give the relationship time, i have gone down on him, but it kinda bothers me that he thinks i’m willing to go further just yet because of that

at this point i’m just bothered by the fact that he didn’t need to buy it if he knew we aren’t gonna be having sex yet, it wasn’t for oral, and his dad didn’t need to know all that