Tonight sucks

Am I crazy for thinking this is just some BS excuse? Everything was fine until I told him I’d turn the lights on for him? 5 months to figure out he didn’t want a relationship? Not to mention my birthday was the 16th; my whole family forgot it, my dad disowned me for speaking up for myself to them, now this. I’m physically ill over all of this. UPDATE: I found out he left because he has another girlfriend whom he’s been with for about 11 months, she’s pregnant, so he left. I guess that’s a relieved to me it wasn’t any longer than it was